

The End of the Journey
It's 9:30 am at Kiev Airport as I await my connecting flight home to JFK. I've been awake now for over 27 straight hours. Having a 7:00 am flight from Odessa, I chose, instead of getting up very early to catch an Uber to the airport, to instead simply skip sleeping altogether, in the hope that would put me in a better position to sleep for most of my 11 am flight out of Kiev and begin to get my body back on schedule (not that I ever fully adjusted in the first place). Somet


I Have Never Been More Grateful to Forget Something
On a minor sidenote to my trip, right after landing at the airport in Odessa a few days ago, I realized I had accidentally left my camel hair sports jacket in the wardrobe of my hotel room in Kiev. I was disappointed, and I had originally bemoaned that I wouldn't get it back. But then I reconsidered. I emailed the staff at the Kiev JDC office and asked if they could make arrangements to pick up the coat and give it to a client who needed it. This afternoon, Diana at the JDC


Beit Grand Is Indeed a Magical Place
My last stop on my JDC Odessa itinerary today, and indeed for my entire Ukrainian journey, was back at the Beit Grand JCC, Odessa's newest Jewish Community Center, built nine years ago. Inna introduced me to Maryna London, the JCC's Program Director, who oriented me to the JCC's entrance. Above the lobby hangs a beautiful sculpture, known as Jacob's Ladder, the image of which has become a symbol of Beit Grand. Directly below the sculpture, in what might otherwise appear to b


Hesed Comes in All Shapes and Sizes (and Ages)
This morning, I was picked up at my hotel in Odessa by Inna Vdovichenko of the JDC Odessa office. The JDC had planned a full day of activity for me on my final day in Ukraine. After a visit to the Odessa Holocaust Memorial, Inna took me to Odessa's Holocaust museum, run with great caring by volunteer Director, Pavel Kozenko, and to Migdal-Shorashim, the Jewish Museum of Odessa, a small space that packs into it rich stories of Jewish families of Odessa. Much of this helped t


A Synagogue Held Up By History
On the way home from Obodivka, Dmitriy and I resolved to make one more stop. We would be driving through the neighboring town of Bershad, and the helpful article I had read about Obodivka noted that there was an old synagogue still existing in Bershad. As there wasn't a synagogue to see in Obodivka, we agreed to drive around in the hope that I could at least see a shul from that era and in that region. Amazingly, the article, written in 2012, not only listed the name of the


Naomi, Charlie, and the Road to Obodivka
While I have met with many Federation-related partners on this trip, and I've enjoyed evenings at the ballet, the operetta theatre, and an international violin festival gala concert, the centerpiece of my journey was always going to be today. As I have heard the story told (and I already apologize to my relatives for any details I get wrong, but that's the thing with family lore), Charlie was a teenager who delivered milk in the village of Obodivka to the home of a young girl


The Wandering Jew, Just Like at Home
In the two weeks before I left for my trip to Ukraine, I spent five high holiday services in five different Upper Fairfield County congregations. While I do that, at least in some part, because of my professional role in our Jewish community, the truth is that I also do it because I love the variety, I find meaning in all different kinds of services, and I consider it part of my own Jewish journey. It came as no surprise to me then that I found myself doing the same thing ove


In Fairfield County we have the Kesher Project, in the FSU we have Project Kesher
Housed at B'nai Israel and serving the community, Upper Fairfield County has the Kesher Project, a program that "kindles the light of Judaism in developmentally challenged adults," under the dedicated leadership of Rhea Farbman. On the other side of the world, in the Former Soviet Union - including Ukraine, and for Russian speakers now living in Israel, our Federation has also supported Project Kesher, with a misssion to "give women and girls the tools to challenge themselves


Grateful for a Gray and Gloomy Morning
As I got into my Uber this morning to head to Babi Yar, I was grateful for the gray and gloomy weather. For many local residents, Babi Yar is nothing but a park adorned with monuments, and, when the weather is nice, I am told that those visiting the site might witness people riding bicycles and walking dogs, children playing soccer, and even the occasional wedding. This all belies the reality that 76 years and 7 days ago, the Jews of Kiev were ordered to gather all their belo


For Twenty Years I've Been Telling a Story About Her, But Today I Met Her
For the past twenty years, one of my favorite artifacts in my office has been a sample JDC food package. On the side of the relatively small box is a list of the dry goods, flour, salt, and so on, that were delivered by the JDC on a monthly basis to Hesed clients in the Former Soviet Union. And for those twenty years, I've told the stories of what for me were nameless and faceless senior adults, living in third or fourth or fifth floor walk-ups, homebound and relying on the